How to Overcome Shyness When Trying to Flirt
You see people around you flirting confidently? People do it so well and
they do not have any problem like shyness even.
But, what is the trouble you? Have you never enjoyed
dates? Do you want to approach someone now but
feeling paralyzed? Do not worry. In this post,
I will share with you 5 ways to overcome your shyness
while trying to flirt.
1. Hold their Gaze and Smile
The shyness is all in your eyes. The windows to our soul are our eyes as
said. If you feel fear when you think of approaching
someone, what you need is simply holding their
gaze. Keep on looking into the eyes of the person
you want to approach for a few seconds. Also, pass
a few smiles while holding the gaze. The tip will
help you in catching their interest. Also, you
will enjoy this big fun. The fun game will work
out and they will say “hi” to you too in response
to your “Hi”. Try this trick a few times and overcome
2. Seek Help from Your Magic Item
The next idea is to find help from your magic item. Find out your magic
item and keep it with you when you are trying to
flirt. We all have a magic item. It can be anything
like a ring, a bracelet or anything. With magic
item with you, you will feel beautiful as well
as confident. With your confidence, you will be
able to flirt without shyness.
3. Use Your Body Language
Instead of verbal communication, non-verbal communication plays 80% role
in a flowing conversation. Have a look at your
postures when you are on a date. You can speak
a lot with your body language if you face trouble
speaking because of your shyness. If you want to
express your interest in others, you need to use
open body language instead of having a posture
with crossed arms and folded legs. If you keep
your postures right and straight, your confidence
will boost up automatically. Straight body postures
will make you feel comfortable and when you will
be comfortable as well as confident, you will no
more have shyness.
4. Try Giving Compliments
The next idea is to overcome your shyness by giving and receiving compliments.
Usually, when someone gives us a comment, we are
not ready to accept it. We do not agree with the
statement of others about us. Do not be as much
aggressive if you want to flirt with someone and
he/she gives a compliment. Even if you do not like
the compliment, simply say thank you with a smile
on your face. Take a start by giving a compliment
to the person too. Give him/her a compliment in
back, but not for the sake of giving a compliment
just. Figure out something genuine and interesting
and then give a compliment.
5. Find Common Interests
In the start of a relationship, many of us feel shy and it is a normal
thing. However; for some people; the initial shyness
is a long-term shyness and they are not going to
get rid of. Such people find entering into friendship
zone really uncomfortable. If the same thing happens
to you, here is a solution for you. People like
to talk when you talk about them. So, your task
is to find out common interests and then think
of questions. Take a start by asking a question.
After discussing and talking too much, your confidence
will boost up and your shyness will remain no more
when you will try to flirt.
Shyness is a natural thing, but to overcome it is your skill. Do not let
your shyness stuck it. Try these ways and have
a control over your shyness.